Any Other Family
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A New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice The New York Times bestselling author of The Weird Sisters returns with a striking and intimate new novel about three very different adoptive mothers who face the impossible question: What makes a family? Though they look like any other family, they aren’t one—not quite. They are three sets of parents who find themselves intertwined after adopting four biological siblings, having committed to keeping the children as connected as possible. At the heart of the family, the adoptive mothers grapple to define themselves and their new roles. Tabitha, who adopted the twins, crowns herself planner of the group, responsible for endless playdates and holidays, determined to create a perfect happy family. Quiet and steady Ginger, single mother to the eldest daughter, is wary of the way these complicated not-fully-family relationships test her long held boundaries. And Elizabeth, still reeling from rounds of failed IVF, is terrified that her unhappiness after adopting a newborn means she was not meant to be a mother at all. As they set out on their first family vacation, all three are pushed into uncomfortably close quarters. And when they receive a call from their children’s birth mother announcing she is pregnant again, the delicate bonds the women are struggling to form threaten to collapse as they each must consider how a family is found and formed.
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Tabitha, Elizabeth, and Ginger aren't related by blood or by marriage, but they're indisputably family: they're mothers who find themselves (and, in two cases, their partners) indelibly linked after adopting four biological siblings. They've committed to keeping their kids as close to one another as possible, though they've got wildly different ideas of what that looks like; for example, Elizabeth and Ginger could do without the two-week vacation Tabitha's been eagerly anticipating and voraciously planning (down to the minute) for months.
The format of this book - alternating perspectives from each of the women - worked well. While their personalities occasionally teetered on the caricature-esque (the perfect one! the cool one! the anxious one!), they were inarguably vivid. I suspect most readers will find one of the women most relatable (for me, it was Ginger), but will find elements of themselves in all three. I also loved how Brown interspersed notes - I won't say from whom for fear of spoilers - throughout. However, the overall reading experience felt fairly slow (and I love character-driven fiction, so it's not that); it dragged for me, especially in the middle, and I feel like it would have been stronger had it been 50 pages shorter.
Ultimately, I'd describe it as a beach read with a twist - an interesting exploration of what it means to be a family and how our own childhood hopes and fears never really leave us. I think fans of Gina Sorrell's “The Wise Women” and Therese Anne Fowler's “It All Comes Down to This” will really enjoy it.
Thanks to NetGalley and Penguin Group Putnam for my ARC.
