Cyber Mage

I don't recommend it unless you already found this world immersive. This one is more violent (the action scenes are skimmable). Male is default, women and girls are still introduced by their bodies and/or sexist insults. The title character is practically an incel, and a Mary Sue, and all his crushes plant a kiss on him by the end of the book.

Detracting, representative lines:

The Cyber Mage only played games he could win.

She had that vaguely tearful voice signaling the hormonal imbalance that triggered the urge to nurture.