I appreciated certain points in this book that I will actively try to incorporate in my life every single day. I gave it 4 stars (couldn't pick between 3 or 4) because I felt it to be repetitive and a bit outdated. I also found the reliance on Christianity to single out a very large group of people that have different beliefs.
I'd give this 4.5. There were very violent parts in the middle that made it difficult to get through but I also have a weak stomach. Overall it was an incredible read. It makes you think about redeemable mistakes and often times it taking an unfortunate circumstance to force people to realize their close mindedness/that life is too short. It gives me hope for people in my life who still choose to dwell on who someone loves / how they choose to live their lives. I'm very excited to read other books by this author and would recommend this book 100%.
I want to recommend this to every man in my life (in fact, I plan to). While many of these ideas are not new, it's so refreshing to hear it from a man's perspective and I value his honesty about his own journey with masculinity/what he's had to un-learn over the years. Justin Baldoni is paving the way for so many past taboo conversations and normalizing them.
“The truth is we don't know what we don't know. We don't even know the questions we need to ask in order to find out, but when we learn one tiny little thing, a dim light comes on in a dark hallway, and suddenly a new question appears.”
I was captivated by how the author discussed really complex topics like religion and addiction. As someone who has struggled to understand both it felt like I was reading my own diary as a child. I also love the way the author writes, Homegoing is another one of my favorites. I can't wait for her next one.
“God is not for women. He is for the fruit. He makes you want and he makes you wicked, and while you sleep, he plants a seed in your womb that will be born just to die.” This book has such a raw unfiltered realness to either being drowned by society's unrealistic expectations/unconscious biases towards you or creating a wall of numbness that leaves you feeling powerless either way. So incredible listening as an audiobook.
There are a couple reasons (along many) on why I voted 5 stars for this book.
The first is how eloquent and beautiful the author writes about each woman she describes - their struggle, strengths, disappointments. All of their stories are so relatable in certain aspects but also taught me so much about different perspectives outside my own.
The second reason is how she interweaves these characters together to show that we're not all that alone in these struggles, those right in front of us are experiencing their own darkness + light as well.
I think my only negative would be the amount of characters did make it slightly difficult to follow along but it just took a quick retracing of my steps to connect who the author was referring to.
I am very excited to read more from this author.