Falling upward by Richard Rohr

"A fresh way of thinking about spirituality that grows throughout life. In Falling Upward, Fr. Richard Rohr seeks to help readers understand the tasks of the two halves of life and to show them that those who have fallen, failed, or "gone down" are the only ones who understand "up." Most of us tend to think of the second half of life as largely about getting old, dealing with health issues, and letting go of life, but the whole thesis of this book is exactly the opposite.? What looks like falling down can largely be experienced as "falling upward."? In fact, it is not a loss but somehow actually a gain, as we have all seen with elders who?have come to their fullness.?? Explains why the second half of life can and should be full of spiritual richness Offers a new view of how spiritual growth happens loss is gain Richard Rohr is a regular contributing writer for Sojourners and Tikkun magazines This important book explores the counterintuitive message that we grow spiritually much more by doing wrong than by doing right."--

A lovely, short read for anyone looking to better understand spirituality, mysticism, and our individual spiritual journeys. Rohr's pragmatic and unassuming approach to spiritual development is refreshing and inspiring and makes aging into the second half of our lives something to look forward to. While Rohr is Catholic and speaks more to that audience, the messages in Falling Upward are applicable to anyone with a spiritual practice, and I think that's part of its charm.

I really love Rohr's core message in all the books I've read. I do wish he would resort less to emotionally-charged assertions and sweeping generalities and ground his argument more in well-developed, thought-through particulars. In this case, I think one could better pinpoint what “second-half-of-life” spirituality really involves. What he's talking about does not happen exclusively after middle age, nor is it an inevitable development – it is possible to age and not mature, while there are young people who are wise beyond their years. And what exactly is it about the process of aging that brings us to the challenging point of transformation? Once more, I find much more satisfying explanations in the ideas of anthroposophy, which give a thorough picture of the different “members” of the human being and of how their relationship to each other and the outer world metamorphose through life. On the other hand, Rohr's compassion, humility, and heartfulness are refreshing, and much needed in order to enliven more cerebral considerations. I wish these two streams could come together for a powerful, fully effective approach to the desperate spiritual needs of our time.

One of my frustrations in 31 years of professional ministry is the impact the youth movement in our culture had on the preparation and installation of leaders in ministry. Not only is pastoral ministry male dominated, it is also (in a weird way) youth oriented.

One of my frustrations with our culture is its emphasis on retirement.

As I am now in my early 60's, one of the struggles has to do with contribution, purpose, place as an older person. But more than complaining about things I probably cannot change, I felt I needed to figure out what my life was going to look like between 60 & 90. Often our life is preparation for the ages 25-65, and after that we are put out to pasture. I feel like I am just starting to figure things out. This is where Rohr's book Falling Upward really came in handy.

Rohr is a great source for the journey of the last half of your life. He is whimsical, straightforward in a gentle way, wise, wide, and gracious. I found his presentation in this book to hit the mark as I ponder the direction and impact I want to make in the final trimester of my life.

One of my favorite quotes from the book is: “We are the clumsy stewards of our own souls.” Falling Upward helps us to see how our lives can have impact and purpose.

Rohr divides life into two halves: “The first half of life is discovering the script, and the second half is actually writing it and owning it.” He describes the first half as a sort of container and the second half is the filling:

“The task of the first half of life is to create a proper container for one's life and answer the first essential questions: “What makes me significant?” “How can I support myself?” and “Who will go with me?” The task of the second half of life is, quite simply, to find the actual contents that this container was meant to hold and deliver.”

If you are looking for a challenging and comprehensive guide to helping you steward your soul, I recommend this book. It is not the easiest read, and you will be challenged. What that means is that you should read the book more than once. The first time for an introduction to foreign idea, the second time for comprehension, the third for apprehension – with a pen and journal for mapping out your journey.

Full review: https://thetempleblog.com/2022/02/14/book-review-falling-upward/

The first half of our life, Richard Rohr tells us, is spent establishing our identity and grounding our lives in security. Some people spend their whole lives doing this.

But to grow spiritually, Rohr says, we must take the trials of the first half of our lives and use the pain and suffering to look at ourselves and our lives in a new way, a life of undoing, unknowing, letting go, a life led by forgiveness for our own imperfections and the imperfections of others, a life of solving problems by falling into what Rohr calls a larger brightness.