Good for a Girl
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Fueled by her years as an elite runner and advocate for women in sports, Lauren Fleshman offers her inspiring personal story and a rallying cry for reform of a sports landscape that is failing young female athletes
"Women's sports have needed a manifesto for a very long time, and with Lauren Fleshman's Good for a Girl we finally have one." --Malcolm Gladwell, author of Outliers and David and Goliath
"Good for a Girl is simultaneously a moving memoir and a call to action in how we think about--and train--girls and women in elite sports. It's a must-read--for anyone who loves running, for anyone who has a daughter, and for anyone who cares about creating a better future for young women." --Emily Oster, author of Expecting Better, Cribsheet, and The Family Firm
Lauren Fleshman has grown up in the world of running. One of the most decorated collegiate athletes of all time and a national champion as a pro, she was a major face of women's running for Nike before leaving to shake up the industry with feminist running brand Oiselle and now coaches elite young female runners. Every step of the way, she has seen the way that our sports systems--originally designed by men, for men and boys--fail young women and girls as much as empower them. Girls drop out of sports at alarming rates once they hit puberty, and female collegiate athletes routinely fall victim to injury, eating disorders, or mental health struggles as they try to force their way past a natural dip in performance for women of their age.
Part memoir, part manifesto, Good for a Girl is Fleshman's story of falling in love with running as a girl, being pushed to her limits and succumbing to devastating injuries, and daring to fight for a better way for female athletes. Long gone are the days when women and girls felt lucky just to participate; Fleshman and women everywhere are waking up to the reality that they're running, playing, and competing in a world that wasn't made for them. Drawing on not only her own story but also emerging research on the physiology and psychology of young athletes, of any gender, Fleshman gives voice to the often-silent experience of the female athlete and argues that the time has come to rebuild our systems of competitive sport with women at their center.
Written with heart and verve, Good for a Girl is a joyful love letter to the running life, a raw personal narrative of growth and change, and a vital call to reimagine sports for young women.
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This is an important book for women in sport – especially running.
The subtitle is apt. This is a memoir about the frustrations of a female athlete's career in a world where value in sport was (and largely, still is) determined by the male gaze. For example:
- A complete lack of understanding around puberty and performance, and how women trying to fight it off by starving themselves risk long-term damage to their bodies and their minds (and it's poorly researched, so we don't even know the full extent of that)
- An overwhelmingly high ratio of male head coaches for women's teams, almost always with a female assistant coach there to help exclusively with the “period stuff” that male coaches apparently can't stomach
- How eating disorders are rampant in female endurance athletes, and yet coaches and the NCAA have no protocols or guidelines for prevention or getting individuals help (whereas there are robust guidelines for concussions)
- How pregnancy is treated like a suspension in sports contracts, all but entirely suspending support for pregnant athletes even though those athletes are still contractually required to make appearances and cannot pursue other sponsorships (and how if a woman even so much as mentioned getting pregnant at Nike, they risked slashes to their contracts, hamstrung by right of first refusal) whereas men are never penalized in the same way, for obvious reasons, even if they too have or want a family
- How women are routinely sexualized in sport (think: Sports Illustrated Body Issue, or women's track uniforms being glorified bathing suits) instead of being appreciate for athletic talent and individual preference
-etc.
Again, I think this is an important book because even though there have been societal strides (pun intended?) in recent years following all the Nike/NOP whistleblowing, there are still fundamental gaps in the ways we support girls and women in sport.
My only issue with this book – and it's not really an issue, I really like the book – is that it's trying to be a memoir and a hard-hitting, research-backed non-fiction and I don't know that it does either entirely successfully. Hearing Lauren's life story is great, but I think less memoir and more research would have been better suited to the overall thesis of this one.
But, it's good writing, and again – very much so worth the read.
