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In the Dream House is Carmen Maria Machado’s engrossing and wildly innovative account of a relationship gone bad, and a bold dissection of the mechanisms and cultural representations of psychological abuse. Tracing the full arc of a harrowing relationship with a charismatic but volatile woman, Machado struggles to make sense of how what happened to her shaped the person she was becoming.
And it’s that struggle that gives the book its original structure: each chapter is driven by its own narrative trope―the haunted house, erotica, the bildungsroman―through which Machado holds the events up to the light and examines them from different angles. She looks back at her religious adolescence, unpacks the stereotype of lesbian relationships as safe and utopian, and widens the view with essayistic explorations of the history and reality of abuse in queer relationships.
Machado’s dire narrative is leavened with her characteristic wit, playfulness, and openness to inquiry. She casts a critical eye over legal proceedings, fairy tales, Star Trek, and Disney villains, as well as iconic works of film and fiction. The result is a wrenching, riveting book that explodes our ideas about what a memoir can do and be.
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Short and simple: I loved this. It made me feel and I could relate.
(Trigger warning: abusive relationship) Absolutely beautifully written memoir about a queer abusive relationship. This is the first book I've read by Machado (whose voice I could listen to all day) and I will be seeking out her other writing. So detailed, so thoughtful, and I appreciated the figurative writing and structure so much, as it added the right gravitas to such an intense subject.
I listened to the audiobook version of this and it was so good. I highly recommend it but check the trigger warnings first because it can get pretty heavy
Beautiful ❤️
An introspective and lusciously written memoir
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