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A SUNDAY TIMES BOOK OF THE YEAR 'This feels like a vision for the 21st-century novel... It made me happy' Ocean Vuong, author of On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous Benson and Mike are two young guys who have been together for a few years - good years - but now they're not sure why they're still a couple. There's the sex, sure, and the meals Mike cooks for Benson, and, well, they love each other. But when Mike finds out his estranged father is dying in Osaka just as his acerbic Japanese mother, Mitsuko, arrives for a visit, Mike picks up and flies across the world to say goodbye. In Japan he undergoes an extraordinary transformation, discovering the truth about his family and his past, while back home, Mitsuko and Benson are stuck living together as unconventional roommates, an absurd domestic situation that ends up meaning more to each of them than they ever could have predicted... Funny and profound, Memorial is about family in all its strange forms, becoming who you're supposed to be and the outer limits of love. NAMED A BOOK TO WATCH IN 2021 BY: SUNDAY TIMES | THE TIMES | DAILY MAIL | THE TELEGRAPH | RADIO 4 | IRISH TIMES
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Not a lot really happens in this, per se - the big argument/conflict between Mike and Ben is before the novel starts, and is only referenced in flashback. Even Mike's section in Japan is still pretty slow/meditative. This isn't bad, it's just a change for me, since I don't read a lot of literary fiction. I did have quite a bit of feeling “oh my god, you two, just break up,” but this is so much more about character than plot, and I enjoyed the time spent really getting into each character's head. I also liked how this was about two working-class gay men of color in Houston, instead of my (kind of mean) impression of literary fiction all being about white male lit professors in New York who want to sleep with their students. I'd like to read this again to get a clearer opinion of it, and also because the writing is just beautiful.
I purchased and read this book of my own accord on release date. At a later date in early 2021, Riverhead approved an old NetGalley request I had made for a digital advanced reader copy, so I'm updating this review to reflect that.
This contemporary fiction novel is quiet and internal, but it lacks the emotional resonance of Washington's short story collection, Lot. Mostly I walked away not really caring for either Mike or Benson; I neither hated them nor loved them, and I was minimally interested in their relationship ending or continuing. Where I think Washington wanted to be spare and beautiful with his character writing, this story lacked heart.
This was... interesting. At first I found the narrative style jarring but then realized it was definitely used as a literary device to show a bit about our main character. This novel tackled a lot and parts were hard to read. I think it was just a short book for how much it bit off but it definitely kept me interested.
Miserable people acting miserably towards one another. I think I just needed there to be something redeeming in the book.