A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids
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“A wise and fresh approach to mindful parenting.” —Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance A kinder, more compassionate world starts with kind and compassionate kids. In Raising Good Humans, you’ll find powerful and practical strategies to break free from “reactive parenting” habits and raise kind, cooperative, and confident kids. Whether you’re running late for school, trying to get your child to eat their vegetables, or dealing with an epic meltdown in the checkout line at a grocery store—being a parent is hard work! And, as parents, many of us react in times of stress without thinking—often by yelling. But what if, instead of always reacting on autopilot, you could respond thoughtfully in those moments, keep your cool, and get from A to B on time and in one piece? With this book, you’ll find powerful mindfulness skills for calming your own stress response when difficult emotions arise. You’ll also discover strategies for cultivating respectful communication, effective conflict resolution, and reflective listening. In the process, you’ll learn to examine your own unhelpful patterns and ingrained reactions that reflect the generational habits shaped by your parents, so you can break the cycle and respond to your children in more skillful ways. When children experience a parent reacting with kindness and patience, they learn to act with kindness as well—thereby altering generational patterns for a kinder, more compassionate future. With this essential guide, you’ll see how changing your own “autopilot reactions” can create a lasting positive impact, not just for your kids, but for generations to come. An essential, must-read for all parents—now more than ever. “To raise the children we hope to raise, we have to learn to become the person we hoped to be…. This wonderful book will help you handle the ride.” —KJ Dell’Antonia, author of How to Be a Happier Parent “Hunter Clarke-Fields shares her wisdom and personal experience to help parents create peaceful families.” —Joanna Faber and Julie King, coauthors of How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen
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Look, I just wanted to know how to get my toddler to stop laughing hysterically and running away every time I ask him to do something. There was one (potentially) useful chapter on changing your language so your kids understand how their actions affect you as the parent, but mostly this was a book about being mindful and meditating, and look, I have nothing against any of that, but it's not what I was looking for. I should have read the title more thoroughly. (I ended up heavily skimming most of the book.)
But also, almost everything in my life is happening while multi-tasking right now. This is the nature of having children and working full time and trying to keep your life balls up in the air. I listen to podcasts while getting ready for the day. I read while eating lunch. I listen to music while I'm working. I talk to my kid while I clean up after dinner. Do I wish I could do one thing at a time? Yes, but who has TIME to eat your one raisin mindfully (one of the first exercises in the book). The fact that I don't yell MUCH is a win sometimes.
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