The Architect of Love

First, full disclosure: I got to read early drafts of a few chapters and give some feedback (not a lot). I really enjoyed reading this book, right from the draft stage.

The analogy of considering the structure of a home for building a relationship is nice. It's not often that a self-published book is of such high quality, from the writing style right down to the feel of the book in hand through the choice of paper and size. What I like best is that the advice is inclusive. Anyone can read it whether you are single and looking (or not looking), happily loved up and married, heterosexual or not, of any faith or spirituality. It also covers cultural differences.

It's all useful advice that would benefit anyone looking for better relationships, and yet feels personal because there are guided exercises that get you to reflect on what you wish for in a partner or relationship. Though focused on romantic relationships, some of the advice is definitely also applicable to platonic or professional relationships. I also like the easy, breezy, conversational style of writing - it reads like a friend is speaking to you, and a frank one who doesn't shy away from addressing the more intimate, complicated, messy matters of relationships, too.