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Average rating3.9
A Big Chill for our times, celebrating decades-long friendships and promises—especially to ourselves—by the bestselling and beloved author of The Guncle.
It’s been a minute—or five years—since Jordan Vargas last saw his college friends, and twenty-eight years since their graduation from Berkeley when their adult lives officially began. Now Jordan, Jordy, Naomi, Craig, and Marielle find themselves at the brink of a new decade, with all the responsibilities of adulthood, yet no closer to having their lives figured out. Though not for a lack of trying. Over the years they’ve reunited in Big Sur to honor a decades-old pact to throw each other living “funerals,” celebrations to remind themselves that life is worth living—that their lives mean something, to one another if not to themselves.
But this reunion is different. They’re not gathered as they were to bolster Marielle as her marriage crumbled, to lift Naomi after her parents died, or to intervene when Craig pleaded guilty to art fraud. This time, Jordan is sitting on a secret that will upend their pact.
A deeply honest tribute to the growing pains of selfhood and the people who keep us going, coupled with Steven Rowley’s signature humor and heart, The Celebrants is a moving tale about the false invincibility of youth and the beautiful ways in which friendship helps us celebrate our lives, even amid the deepest challenges of living.
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3.5 - This book had a bit of a slow start and lost me in some of the flashbacks, but overall I fell in love with this friendship group who bonded through the trauma of losing their college friend. They made a pact to throw each other funerals while they were still living and not leave anything unsaid about how much they've meant to each other. Through flashbacks of each of these character's funerals you get to know their stories and relationships with each other. I thought it was beautifully written and the last few chapters made me ugly cry more than a few times. It was funny, charming, existential and deeply heartfelt.
“It's all going to kill you, you might as well do something fun.”
With some authors, you just know what to expect. Right? A Fredrick Backman novel is going to be, well, like a Backman novel. Having read two of Steven Rowley's previous books (Lily and the Octopus and The Guncle), I thought I knew what to expect. But really, I found The Celebrants to be a departure from those two!
For the first quarter of this book, I was getting into it, thinking okay, this is going to be really good. However, at that point it seemed to just keep going without much really happening. This is really a character-driven story...there's not a ton of storyline. At first, that really threw me off and I was pretty unsure about the whole thing. Where was this thing going??
In reality, it's just a succession of the friends' “funerals” that are had during personal crises. If you're looking for a really riveting story, you're not going to find it here.
HOWEVER. starting at about 55%, the whole thing started to affect me more deeply, and I started really loving a couple of the characters. It just took a while for me to get there! I almost felt like giving up on it, but man, the payoff in the second half is so worth getting a little bored in the first half.
My full review is here: https://literaryquicksand.com/2023/06/review-the-celebrants-by-steven-rowley/