The Men We Need
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Average rating4.3
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Average rating4.3
The world needs real men, real bad. And there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). Is a real man one who hunts, loves sports, grills meat, fixes cars, and climbs mountains? Sure, sometimes. But that's not really the point of being a man and it's not the purpose for which men were made. Into our cultural confusion, Brant Hansen paints a refreshingly specific, compelling picture of what men are made to be: "Keepers of the Garden." Protectors and defenders. He calls for men of all interests and backgrounds (including "avid indoorsmen" like himself) to be ambitious about the right things and to see themselves as defenders of the vulnerable, with whatever resources they have. Using short chapters loaded with must-have wisdom and Brant's signature humor, The Men We Need explains the essence of masculinity in a fresh, thoughtful, and entertaining way that will inspire any man who dares to read it.
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Brant Hansen is a funny guy who clearly knows it from how he writes, and him bringing his light, playful tone to a book about Christian masculinity is welcome. At least in the evangelical space, there often isn't room for authors who aren't deadly serious or seriously “manly” to contribute to thoughts on Christian manhood. Hansen veers hard into the “you don't have to be a bearded ripped guy who is always ready to throw down to be a godly man,” and that is very appreciated by someone like myself who doesn't fit that mold at all. He asks men to be “keepers of the garden,” similar to how Adam was asked to do the same thing in Genesis 1-3, and explains it through a variety of lenses related to martial fidelity, anger and gentleness, creating a sense of security for others, and many more. There are a lot of pop culture references, but they're to large enough properties so the book should age relatively well. Hansen is very self-deprecating but uses it to his advantage to show how men don't need to fit a classical manly image to be keepers of the garden the way that he sees God intending for us.
My main issue with the book that knocks its rating down considerably is that from the title to the last page it is complementarian by nature. I myself am an egalitarian and more “progressive” evangelical, and while I can take a lot of nuggets from this book that are helpful and good for my everyday Christian walk, I think women could too. The title of this book appealing exclusively to men is both a misnomer and its biggest flaw. Any Christian could learn how to be a better leader or person in general if they read this book, but the title almost excludes over half of the Christian population. I wish this wasn't marketed as a book exclusively on masculinity and manhood because while it does appeal to Christian men primarily its scope could be so much broader.
Getting past the complementarian and exclusive nature of The Men We Need is very possible but takes some time. Hansen does make a good case for an alternative way of viewing Christian manhood that is less destructive and more compassionate than the average evangelical author, so I would recommend it to those looking for that. It's a pretty fast-paced read too, as the chapters are short enough and light enough to often cover pages and pages in a sitting. However, from a broader standpoint this book struggles with actually being inclusive enough to include anyone who is in a leadership position regardless of their gender.
