We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves
Ratings60
Average rating3.8
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Ratings60
Average rating3.8
Meet the Cooke family: Mother and Dad, brother Lowell, sister Fern, and Rosemary, who begins her story in the middle. She has her reasons. "I was raised with a chimpanzee," she explains. "I tell you Fern is a chimp and, already, you aren't thinking of her as my sister. . . . Until Fern's expulsion . . . she was my twin, my fun-house mirror, my whirlwind other half. . . . I loved her as a sister." As a child, Rosemary never stopped talking. Then, something happened, and Rosemary wrapped herself in silence. In *We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves*, Karen Joy Fowler weaves her most accomplished work to date--a tale of loving but fallible people whose well-intentioned actions lead to heartbreaking consequences.
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Beautiful tragedy about family, sisters, psychology, science, ethics & animals. Everyone should read it but be warned a lot of loss & pain are experienced by the human and chimp characters. It's not an easy read.
One sentence synopsis... A thoughtful portrait of the fallout a family experience after a child/chimpanzee study they're participants in is prematurely aborted. .
Read it if you liked... ‘Okja', man-of-the-moment Bong Joon-Ho's film about animal cruelty ft. the Animal Liberation Front. .
Dream casting... Four years ago this was supposed to be a miniseries starring Natalie Portman... nothing seems to have come from that but she'd be a great Rosemary Cooke. Obviously having an actual chimpanzee in the film would be a slap in the face to the subject matter of the book so maybe they're just waiting for the CGI technology to catch up.
Really liked it! A couple lines will really stick with me (I think. It's been about 24 hours so far.
So the first major thing to say is that both the blurb on the back of the book and the cover illustration of this edition spoiled the major plot twist, so I spent the first 70 pages wondering how I was supposed to react, and how I would have reacted had I not known that Fern was a chimp, not a girl. Once that was over, though, I found the book to be a solid family drama with relatable main characters. It's hard to more thoroughly review without massive spoilers, and I tend to think that spoiler-y reviews are not helpful, so suffice to say that I found Rosemary, Harlow and Lowell particularly to be fascinating, unique characters and I found Rosemary's journey from loquacious youngest sibling to recalcitrant only child to be interesting.
Two major downsides: one is that the animal rights stuff got a little heavy-handed to the point of detracting from the main plot. (A major side plot seemed to be: “You, too, can join the ALF. Here is how. Don't feel bad, they're not really terrorists – they don't hurt people, they just set back life-saving research by years, but that doesn't really count.”) The other downside is that the last 20% of the book feels really weak. It mostly is just tying up loose ends and has completely lost the momentum of the first portion.
Overall, I found this book compulsive reading. I had to know what happened to Fern and Lowell, and then what Rosemary was going to do. The characters were done beautifully and Fowler succeeded at something that so much contemporary literature fails at: an actually unique story.
