Wild at Heart

This book went up and down for me. I really enjoy John's writing and storytelling style and some of the points he made were poignant and I will take to heart. However many of the things he says are wrapped up in a viewpoint of masculinity that I feel is limited to North American culture and viewpoints.

Keeping a strong Christian tolerance about non-violence, and being wary of dangerous situations as a parent doesn't emasculate boys. Neither does enforcing discipline in school settings. How many jokes are there about strict school marms or nuns? Also the book seems to be focused on the concept of modeling oneself after the great warriors and their cinematic battles as it is focused on scripture and the examples we find there. While I was reading I started keeping a tally of Braveheart mentions.

On the flip side there were things I liked. I identified with the thoughts about how men have wounds, either emotional or spiritual that need addressing, or how we clothe ourselves with identities that the world expects. I particularly loved the section where John walked through spiritual warfare and the weapons and gear God has for us.

Overall I would only recommend this book to a Christian friend who has the maturity to take and leave points like I have. He may come away with totally opposite ideas, but the personal discernment is what matters. This is the kind of book where one could easily be taken in by the colorful language and the dramatic speeches and accept all within 100%. Many men who have recommended this book to me. Are the kind of guys who go crazy for this particular study or that devotional and never seem to stay steady with any one thing.

Thanks
Jim