With the cliches, already! Hegar also has a rather self-serving view of feminism and I did not appreciate her belittling a few other women serving in the military. She also throws around words like “trust,” then claims not to trust anyone, especially men. Lacking in nuance. This book brought out the snotty editor in me.
Hmm. I adore Moriarty and her lively characters (especially how she captures children's voices). I have to agree a bit with the NYT review - there is a lot of dramatic buildup about “the day of the bbq” and the event itself is almost a letdown. I think a different structure might have better suited the storyline. Still, it's Liane Moriarty, so it's a great listen.
Update: liked it much better the second time when I knew going into the book that the defining incident is more important for relational, emotional, and psychological reasons.