Be prepared that this book is not written as a traditional narrative but rather fragmented parts of the story each with a different theme. But what a wonderful surprise - the subject matter is difficult, the writing is incredible. You can feel the growth of the relationship and abuse and of the protagonist in every page.
Parts of this book were fun and interesting, but the writing style of a lot of telling rather than showing wasn't for me. The story itself deals with some really important and often under-represented topics such as colourism, discrimination faced by Black women, and cultural expectations that can themselves be problematic, but the protagonist doesn't make much progress until the last 8th of the book. I also found the Christianity heavy handed.