Steve

Pretty sure I have never written a review on Goodreads, but there's a first time for most things. As others have pointed out, this book perpetuates outdated gender stereotypes and brands non-hetero folks as deviant. I don't consider myself to be overly sensitive on this topic, but the obliviousness with which the author trots that nonsense out is pretty breathtaking.

Kreisman also repeatedly refers to people who are struggling with emotional dysregulation as “borderlines”. Borderlines often do this. Borderlines aren't able to do that. After an hour or so of listening (I chose the audiobook), the term started to ring like a pejorative. It reduces the people who have this disorder to being nothing more than the thing they struggle with. People reading this book are either those same, multi-faceted people, or family members / friends who love them.

There is probably some useful info in here somewhere, but I have to tap out on this one. Yuck. DNF.