
I wasn't interested per se in the content of this book, and probably wouldn't have read it if a friend hadn't handed it to me. But wow, while the content still didn't thrill me, the individual sentences, the paragraphs, the metaphors, the emotions were so wise and so meaningful that I ended up really loving the book–and even taking notes. At first glance it seemed to be that genre that really annoys me–middle aged person making stupid decisions–but no, it was really middle aged person figuring out what were the right decisions for her.
Much as I try to avoid your typical “white women/first world problems” books, I really do love Jennifer Weiner. I felt like the pacing was the best thing about this book. I wasn't crazy about any of the characters and Cassie, especially, seemed like a caricature, but it was still a fun read for a challenging week.
I am not a believer or Christian of any kind (far from it) but I do struggle with decision making. If you skip over the God/Jesus parts, this book is a quick read and has lots of good ideas to think about. I especially like her focus on the importance of being yourself and figuring out what you want and need. The decision isn't the important thing–the important thing is becoming more yourself. Maybe everything in here is obvious or trite to people who don't struggle like I do, but I welcomed the opportunity to think more in depth about decision-making.
This was really fantastic. I started putting her advice into practice before I even finished the book, and I feel like it's improved my conversations already. There was a lot I already knew (this isn't the first book I've read on this subject) but also a lot that was new to me. And, while I often feel like I'm going to forget everything I've read in a book like this, there was just the right amount of information and repetition (or building on previous ideas) to where I feel like I'll really retain what I learned. Highly recommend!
I really disliked the main character and the freaking italics in the beginning of this book. But I decided to keep going even though I usually don't read books where I dislike the main character, and I'm glad I did. The mystery was fun to follow and it never got as scary as I was worried it might. There were some seriously racist characterizations of all the non-white characters which turned out to be my biggest beef with this book.
Wow. This book reached inside my brain and scooped lots of buried stuff in there out into the open. I listened to it as an audiobook, and usually that makes me like a book less, but the narrator was so, so good I can't imagine having just read it on paper. Will be reading more Sarah Moss and listening to more by that narrator!
DNF after 100 pages. Besides the casual racism and grandiose writing, I just couldn't take how every moment seemed like a giant turning point. How many turning points can there be? I guess I should have known by the pretentious title that it was going to be like this. I so loved A Walk in the Park that I was excited to try it, though.
I am not a huge fan of books where there is obviously something wrong and the main character knows there is something wrong but keeps convincing themselves that maybe there isn't. 95% of this book is that with the big reveal in the last 5%. So, I wasn't a huge fan but I did read to the end to find out what the big reveal was going to be!