It's an important book because of its difficult message, but it badly needs to be updated to reflect the reality of modern internet porn. It also just isn't accessible if you're not already invested in feminism or deconstructing masculinity, I need a resource I can just hand other men and not have them turned off right from the start by accusations that they hate women (which, maybe they do, but that kind of language cuts off the conversation before it can start). It was hard to read.
Why can't all sports books be like this? Halberstam is always aware that he's writing about Michael Jordan and basketball but that those two things only exist and work in a larger world that we all live in. Really the only thing this book was missing was the interviews Jordan was supposed to give Halberstam, which definitely would have strengthened it. -1 star because you can tell he's pro “we should all be colorblind” when it comes to race
It's a very very patriotic book. I don't know how important patriotism is to me anymore. A huge part of me says I should shed my patriotism altogether for the kingdom of God. Another part of me is still moved by the acts of nobility that try to balance the horrors of our American past. I still cry during the national anthem sometimes, so I still really liked this book.
Whenever I'd put this book down, I'd talk in a southern accent for like a half-hour. I cried, it was great
One of the most frustrating books I've ever read. Really puts the ‘slow' in slow burn. But it was nice to feel all romance-y
Incredibly sweet and moving at parts. At times I loved the prose, and at times it became a little self-indulgent, but I think that's what Gay was going for anyway. The best part of this book is that I started counting my delights more or less intentionally throughout my days reading it. Thanks, Ross Gay!
I really can't believe this book. I need like a million copies so that everyone in my life can read it. Hot take: love is a force for good?
This is the kind of important book that leaves me feeling helpless. It does not end on a down note or anything, Marohn gives a lot of room for hope and rebuilding, but it just sucks that now these are all problems that we have to deal with. Why couldn't I have been born a Boomer?
This book is exactly what it said it would be so it's my fault for expecting something else. It reads far more like the history of a handful of cities rather than an analysis of sports stadiums and their cultural importance but I still learned a lot. The last like ten pages are what I wanted the whole thing to be
Not the best book ever but it made me feel like I was in space having fun so it's exactly what I was looking for
Yeah this jawn was tight. Dr. J's eminence comes through in the few quotes he gets. Really crazy that this ever even happened at all. But that applies to most things I guess