Getting Off

It's an important book because of its difficult message, but it badly needs to be updated to reflect the reality of modern internet porn. It also just isn't accessible if you're not already invested in feminism or deconstructing masculinity, I need a resource I can just hand other men and not have them turned off right from the start by accusations that they hate women (which, maybe they do, but that kind of language cuts off the conversation before it can start). It was hard to read.