Know My Name

"Each time a survivor resurfaced, people were quick to say what does she want, why did it take her so long, why now, why not then, why not faster. But damage does not stick to deadlines. If she emerges, why don't we ask her how it was possible she lived with that hurt for so long, ask who taught her to never uncover it."

this was a very emotional read for me. as a victim, there have been times where trauma is minimized and internalized, and chanel very eloquently described these deep-seated emotions that are hard to express. i am forever thankful for this book, for giving survivors a voice and validating the injustices they face. thank you chanel, i am so grateful for your courage <3