Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

3.5 ⭐️

I found the later sections helpful, but as a psych major most of the attachment sections felt repetitive and covered a lot of what I already knew. I also noted that the author had a fundamental misunderstanding of asexuality – Fern states “[they] do not engage in sex with others” and puts this group in the “high sexual exclusivity” category. Some asexual people have sex, some don't. Some basic research could have corrected this assumption. I do recommend this book otherwise, though; it contains a lot of helpful information and I'll be referencing it a lot in the future.