How Literature Can Help Us Reinvent Modern Motherhood
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This treasure trove for book lovers explores fifteen classic novels with memorable maternal figures, and examines how our cultural notions of motherhood have been shaped by literature. Sweet, supportive, dependable, selfless. Long before she had children of her own, journalist Carrie Mullins knew how mothers should behave. But how? Where did these expectations come from—and, more importantly, are they serving the mothers whose lives they shape? Carrie's suspicion, later crystallized while raising two small children, was that our culture’s idealization of motherhood was not only painfully limiting but harmful, leaving women to cope with impossible standards––standards rarely created by mothers themselves. To discover how we might talk about motherhood in a more realistic, nuanced, and inclusive way, Carrie turned to literature with memorable maternal figures for answers. Moving through the literary canon––from Pride and Prejudice and Little Women to The Great Gatsby, Beloved, Heartburn, and The Joy Luck Club—Carrie traces the origins of our modern mothering experience. By interrogating the influences of politics, economics, feminism, pop culture, and family life in each text, she identifies the factors that have shaped our prevailing views of motherhood, and puts these classics into conversation with the most urgent issues of the day. Who were these literary mothers, beyond their domestic responsibilities and familial demands? And what lessons do they have for us today—if we choose to listen?
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The Book of Mothers by Carrie Mullins. How literature can help us reinvent motherhood.
Carrie has taken 15 classic books and the maternal women within them to give us a glimpse at motherhood through literature. It's an interesting book how she has taken women from books and dissected what kind of mothers they were, an example of modern versions of the women and her own insights to motherhood through her own experiences.
I never thought much about the good and bad of some of the mothers through some of the books. I haven't read all the books she samples but the ones that I have, for the most part, like Pride and Prejudice were indicative of the time they were written so this was a super interesting analysis.
I enjoyed much more than I was expecting until she came at Mrs. Weasley.. I will thrown down haha
It was a really well written and insightful read and I gave it 4.5 stars...