The Goddess is in the Details

This book was not what I expected, although to be fair, the author did try to warn me in the first few pages. I am not a Wiccan, but find the religion very interesting and I've read many introductory books over the years. I was hoping for this book to offer insight into the ways being a Wiccan or Pagan influences one's life outside of rituals and magick. At times, this book did that, but I could not get used to the informal writing style. Once the author suggested that an independent person might dress up as a slave for Halloween in order to access a non-dominant personality trait, I almost put the book down for good. I see the point she was trying to make, but don't understand how she missed the red flags on that specific example.