You, Again

Almost 35 years ago, moviegoers were asked to consider if men and women could be friends without sex getting in the way. In You, Again, a loving homage to When Harry Met Sally, debut author Kate Goldbeck updates the story to 2023, when “friends with benefits,” “f*ck buddies,” etc. blur the lines between friends and lovers.

Josh and Ari first meet in 2014, when she is soliciting charitable donations, and a grumpy man in a sweater rudely blows off her request. Surprisingly, Tall Sweater Nightmare Man appears that same evening at her apartment for a date with Ari's roommate Natalie, who is conspicuously absent. Josh and Ari engage in awkward conversation for a while, but the tentative ceasefire disintegrates when Ari admits she has already slept with Natalie.

The two New Yorkers encounter each other several times in the next few years, and the sparks that fly are predominantly the angry kind. Finally, when they cross paths in 2022, Ari and Josh are at personal and professional nadirs. Too depressed to consider screwing, they become friends who text, shop, and watch synced Netflix movies while on the phone with each other. Everything is fine until a fateful New Year's Eve kiss, which leaves Josh looking for a soul mate and Ari looking for a quick exit.

Neither Ari nor Josh are entirely likeable people. Ari is an aspiring comedian and improv actor who doesn't allow anyone to get close to her emotionally, including her friends. She's analogous to the Billy Crystal character, with a cynical view of love and a dating app that includes threesomes with married couples. Josh's father runs a famous Jewish deli, but he dreams of opening a hip, modern restaurant that eschews chopped liver and blintzes. He's the Meg Ryan-ish romantic of the duo, but he is also rather rigid and judgmental. Goldbeck creates such strong chemistry between the two that you'll root for their HEA, even if you're not completely sold on them as individuals.

Goldbeck doesn't stick too closely to the WHMS plot, but there is a last-minute “epiphany leads to airport run” that is milked for all of the drama and comedy feelz. From its autumnal-colored cover to the sweet epilogue, You, Again is a delightful homage to one of the most celebrated American romcoms.