I really appreciate this book's existence, and thought it did a good job explaining the concept of power dynamic relationships. However, I felt that it was overly short and would have loved to see more of a focus on how to counsel power dynamic relationships, unique concerns that come up, and more fleshed out information. There was some good stuff about attachment styles and similarity with traditional relationships, but this just felt too short and unfinished.

Well written, heartbreakingly blunt and honest, and poetic in its harshness. This was really really well written, with no embellishment or melodrama. The style was beautiful. I felt like the end was less poignant and riveting than the rest of it - it feels like after the escape the book meanders around the point and loses focus. But it is still honest
Really strong stories about a specific section of Asian America's diaspora that I was unfamiliar with. Not all of these stories worked for men, but as the book progressed I found them more and more engrossing. I really enjoyed the way the stories and their characters fit together, and found the tone and style to perfectly fit the stories and characters being created here.
So disturbing. Beautiful descriptions of horrifying things, with a big dash of the surreal. I absolutely do not like body horror when it comes to pregnancy and birth, but this was really well done so I won't rate based on that. I would have loved a little more structure or background, but this felt like an absolute fever dream and the style of dropping in on Iraxi with no explanation really worked.
This book has the same vibes as The Bell Jar and I absolutely love a protagonist with questionable and dwindling sanity. Maria is such a fantastic example of an “unlikeable” character (which I don't get, I loved her) and the spiral her life takes absolutely drew me in. I see why this is a classic and it definitely stands the test of time.
Well written and a vitally important read. I found this heavy but also liberating - the thoughts and feelings I feel are normal and many people feel this way. I want this to be required reading for everyone who denies rape culture. I also wish that there was more of a summary/conclusion at the end of this - it feels a little unfinished and needs something to round it out.