I love the Frugalwoods blog and it was so nice to learn more of their story and in longer form.
While some might raise eyebrows, I think the heart of the story and the lessons she learned is very valuable and refreshing to anyone who's found themselves in a place of unidentifiable unhappiness by doing what society tells us we should do.
I like the 4 agreements and I enjoyed thinking about them over the last few days and probably will for a good long time. There's a lot of freeing wisdom in them.
But.
The front bookflap was enough for me. It was the TLDR and I wish I stuck to that. So succinct and somehow more practical and relatable. While I greatly enjoyed the lessons and got a lot of value out of it, I hated reading the book. All the talk about smoke and mirrors and stars and poison and curses and dreams made me feel like I showed up at the wrong party. Super uncomfortable, not relatable, and didn't feel true. I'm reminded why I never read this when gifted to me 7 years ago. This says more about me than the book, I know (see? I read it!)
But the flap? That's good stuff.
A good book, and I'm looking forward to reading more of her work. For me, this was an ambitious novel and tried to take on too many things. It was really long, and my favorite parts and characters were glossed over despite the length (like Dike and Obinze.) I also struggled with not really knowing Ifemelu. For as long as the book is, I don't feel close to her, but maybe that's because she's most often observing and commenting.
It could have been half as long with half the themes and it would be stellar.
I didn't love it. Ok, not good, definitely not great. I didn't read this as a kid, so maybe the nostalgia is missing. I liked the beginning it was charming and paced well, but as I read on it read like a skipping stone to me. The author barely touched on the big themes and interesting and unique ideas that she tried to introduce. It came out very flat and two dimensional when it tried to talk to fourth and fifth dimensions. Also, definitely didn't dig the obvious and out of place religious references.
It was so good and I'm really excited to read more of this author's work. She hits on so many deep and heavy topics that, on paper, feels like too much for any one book to tackle, but the author made it work in a very engaging way. It's an incredible story with every character being likable and detestable at various points. I loved it and couldn't put it down.
The writing is lovely and vivid and creepy, but I did not enjoy the story. I don't understand the hype.
The main character is annoying, childish, and daydreams all the time. She doesn't have a name. She doesn't really show much growth outside of really leaning in to her puppy love idolization of Maxim. The book is written from her perspective, so I think that's why I couldn't love it like so many others do.
I loved this book. I should know by now what to expect from a John Green book, but I was surprised at how smart and deep and thought provoking it was. He's a master at bringing a motif or symbol all the way through the book, and as a reader it's so fun and rewarding to follow them.
I wish I read this when I was younger, it would have made me rethink some of my relationships and expectations of others and myself. So good. Will reread. Now I'll have to check out some Whitman and Woody Guthrie.
I loved the illustrations. It's a quick read (even at nearly 600 pages) but the illustrations will slow you way down, definitely to be savored. There was some beautiful writing and it made me feel quiet, dreamy, and a little melancholy. But for all the closeness and detail we got about the two week trip, my problem with the book is what the author chose to glaze over. Being abused by his babysitter, how his relationship with his brother disintegrates, how he loses his faith, and why he burns Raina out of his life so suddenly and completely. It was frustrating to get to the end and realize that all those threads would just be left unfinished.
A tiny, beautiful, and crushing story. It's super short and potent and I can feel it haunting me already.
The only downside was a stylistic choice of the author. I agree with other readers that the lack of capitalization was annoying. I got used to it, but towards the end she explicitly writes about learning capital letters I felt duped. Still well worth a read and a reread, though.
It's an interesting and inspiring concept, but could have been an article or blog post. It's so repetitive it's unreadable (and kind of reductive: everything “bad” is because of a fixed mindset, everything “good” is because of a growth mindset). I read some other reviews to see if it ever got deeper than anecdotes and praise for her own work and it doesn't look like it does. Giving up.