My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward: A Memoir
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Average rating3.7
"A heart-wrenching, yet hopeful, memoir of a young marriage that is redefined by mental illness and affirms the power of love. Mark and Giulia's life together began as a storybook romance. The fell in love at eighteen, married at twenty-four, and were living their dream life in San Francisco. When Giulia was twenty-seven, she suffered a terrifying and unexpected psychotic break that landed her in the psych ward for nearly a month. One day she was vibrant and well-adjusted; the next she was delusional and suicidal, convinced that she was the devil and that her loved ones were not safe. All she wanted was to die. Eventually, Giulia fully recovered, and the couple had a son. But, soon after Jonas was born, Giulia had another breakdown, and then a third a few years after that. Pushed to the edge of the abyss, everything the couple had once taken for granted was upended. A story of the fragility of the mind, and the tenacity of the human spirit, My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward is, above all, a love story that raises profound questions: How do we care for the people we love? What and who do we live for? Breathtaking in its candor, radiant with compassion, and written with dazzling lyricism, Lukach's is an intensely personal odyssey through the harrowing years of his wife's mental illness, anchored by an abiding devotion to family that will affirm readers' faith in the power of love"--
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This memoir was a fascinating read, exploring a husband's journey through his wife's mental illness, requiring hospitalization, myriad appointments, various medications, and adaptation to a new normal. I appreciated the author's honesty regarding the frustration, impatience, and uncertainty that often accompanied the ups and downs his family experienced due to his wife's mental illness. He doesn't sugarcoat anything, but readers can also see his commitment to walking with his wife throughout it all when others perhaps would not have wanted to stay the course.
I would recommend this book to mental health professionals who could benefit from reading the firsthand experiences of a caregiver of someone with mental illness. Caregivers in similar positions may also benefit from reading in not feeling as alone and seeing the value of having strong social support like this family does.
I've been devouring memoirs lately, and I'm really glad that My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward was one of them.
It's pretty easy to figure out what this one's about from the title, but on the inside, this is not a straightforward and ordinary book. Yes, the author's wife goes to the psych ward, but the entire story of how she gets there and their life before, during and after is unique and ridiculously compelling. I had a hard time putting this down!
My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward is a really unique glimpse into family life with mental illness. Mike Lukach and his wife, Giulia, have a seemingly fairy tale life. They meet, they fall in love, they love intensely. Then, suddenly, Giulia experiences an onset of mental illness, despite not really having symptoms before. It's all very difficult to bear, and the strain it puts on their relationship and their lives is huge. Like I said before, I couldn't put this one down – I just had to keep reading to find out more about their story.
Lukach provides such an intimate look at living with mental illness. It was an eye-opening read, and I'm so glad I picked it up. If you enjoy memoirs or just want to read a real-life story of living with mental illness, I recommend this one.
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The book I needed to read right now; the book I really couldn't read right now.
This was so good. All of the things that you don't think about because you have never had to think about are here in this book. The idea that psychosis would rear its ugly head out of nowhere is terrifying, but what struck me most was hearing Mark's side of the story. How he dealt with his depression. What wasn't said so much in the book, but what I thought about a lot was how his depression was mostly ignored or minimized because it wasn't as bad as Giulia's. Not that friends and family dismissed him, Giulia did. Because all care centered around her and her hospitalizations what he was feeling and how he was coping was set aside.
Their love is an amazing story. The fact that they have made it through all of this and still do is a shining example of devotion and love. I still think about Giulia having to live with this hanging over her head. Wondering if not falling asleep for a few hours passed her normal bedtime will set off another psychotic episode because it's also November must be exhausting. But watching interviews with her after reading the book she is open and honest about her struggles and I admire that. I hope the hospitalizations are behind her now and she, Mark and Jonas get to live happily ever after.
