
Realistically this isn't a 4 star book. It felt rushed (because it was) and as a massive BTTF fan, I'd already heard most of these tales in some form or another. I would LOVE this same book but with a deeper dive.
It's getting 4 stars because of nostalgia and my love of the film. That and the little twinkle from the score at the beginning and end of the audiobook made me tear up.
This starts as an examination of the ideal, but curated (derogatory) life of millennials but ends up feeling like a poor-me story of two people incapable of feeling grateful.
Maybe that's the true millennial story though.
The emotionless, distant writing style worked for this story, but the lack of any character depth didn't work for me.
I don't want to get old. I finished this last night. It's a simple, quiet story about an old man grappling with being near the end of his life. Losing more autonomy, dignity, and control. That might sound like it's a dark tale, it's not. There's a lot about things left unsaid. The story shows generational differences in emotional expression. Especially among men. Made me want to be more curious and open. The contrast between Bo's internal experience and those taking care of him really got me thinking about how my 95 old grandma is experiencing the world now. Still not sure on my star rating. Probably around 4 stars.
My rating reflects the my overall feelings about the book, but the writing is lovely and unique. I made quite a few highlights. I'd like to read more Salter.
“He drank his tea. He heard the clack of his dog's old nails on the floor. Hadji sat at his feet, looking up, hungry like all the aged. His dog that had run in the breathless snow, stronglegged, young, his ears back, his keen glances, his pure smell. A life that passed in an instant.'”
It's cute and cozy but a little too corny for my taste. I'm not mad about the inclusion of the octopus by any means, but the entire story could have unfolded without him with slight adjustments. Almost felt like the story wasn't interesting enough on its own so she threw in the magical element. I don't know. Lots of people love it so it's likely just not a book for me. It also didn't help that I can called the “twist” immediately after the ring was mentioned. I get that she wants the reader to discover the twist before the characters, but it felt too obvious too soon. Why do authors give you a clue to a twist but then call too much attention to it? Like with the initials, I feel like if she'd just said “EELS, must be their mascot” and moved on I wouldn't have given it much thought. But she called out the fact that it didn't seem like there were any eels throughout the year book. .
The first time I heard of this book it was on one of those “what book do you wish you could read for the first time again?” threads and I think that and the length put me off reading it for a while. Because I wanted to wait “for the right time” to read it. I'm so glad I finally read it, but I mourn the loss of reading it for the first time.
I fear I'm going to struggle to love new books for a while because they will lack the character depth, humor, sadness, and tension this book provides. It's so well rounded. There is nothing new to be said about this book or its characters but I loved it and them. I'll be living in this epic western for a long time.
It took me too long for how short the book is. That being said, I do wish it was a little longer. Especially in certain areas where the time jumped suddenly. The first half of the book almost felt like she was just reciting facts about people in the neighborhood. It ends up being a good setup for the second half, but it was a little struggle for me. I highlighted an inordinate amount of passages for how short the book is. Some really great lines. I think it framed the trans experience in a way that really helped me feel instead of just know. I didn't love the memoir style of it, but overall I liked it.
“Before you get the chance to define yourself, others trace your outline with their prejudices and their aggressions”
Sometimes memoirs that are chunked up into bit sized anecdotes aren't super satisfying, but as a blink fan, someone who was in or adjacent to this world and some of its stories and characters, I found this very enjoyable. I think even if you are the tiniest bit of a blink fan, you'll have a good time.
You know those books that describe the everyday, mundane world in a way that you experience but aren't sure if others do? And when you read one, you feel understood? This is one of those books.
Its stream-of-consciousness style and heavy use of footnotes feel like peering into my ADHD brain. It's a very funny book, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I want to recommend it to everyone and no one at the same time because I can see how this unique structure and subject matter might not work for some people.