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A personal and cultural exploration of silence and its value in our lives—“[an] artful book, mixing autobiography, travel writing, meditation, and essay” (Independent, UK). In her late forties, after a noisy upbringing as one of six children and adulthood as a vocal feminist and mother, Sara Maitland found herself living alone in the country and, to her surprise, falling in love with silence. In this fascinating, intelligent, and beautifully written book, Maitland describes how she began to explore this new love, spending periods of silence in the Sinai desert, the Scottish hills, and a remote cottage on the Isle of Skye. Maitland also delves deep into the rich cultural history of silence, exploring its significance in fairy tale and myth, its importance to the Western and Eastern religious traditions, and its use in psychoanalysis and artistic expression. Her story culminates in her building a hermitage on an isolated moor in Galloway. “Her book is probably unique in its subject, and timely, because good, healing silence is becoming hard to find, and we may not know we need it” (Guardian, UK).
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Sara Maitland's “Silence” is a solitude, experienced in a wide open nature exempt of the sound of humanity. She spends 1-2 decades exploring and searching for the perfect space, and the perfect silence. The book recounts her explorations (in deserts, and moors, on walks and lock-ins), the practical and the psychological, and mixes it with quotes and stories about other famous hermits and solitude-seekers.
She learns that there are 2 different ways of seeking solitude/silence: the romantic and the religious way. While the religious seekers attempt inner emptiness, a purging of the self, the romantic seekers attempt to find and strengthen their own self while in solitude. A writer in profession and also deeply religious, Maitland wants to find a way to combine these two opposing usages of silence.
Reading this book made me very aware of the city noises around me, and made me long to own a little cottage far from civilisation.