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Arjie is funny. The second son of a privileged family in Sri Lanka, he prefers staging make-believe wedding pageants with his female cousins to battling balls with the other boys. When his parents discover his innocent pastime, Arjie is forced to abandon his idyllic childhood games and adopt the rigid rules of an adult world. Bewildered by his incipient sexual awakening, mortified by the bloody Tamil-Sinhalese conflicts that threaten to tear apart his homeland, Arjie painfully grows toward manhood and an understanding of his own different identity.
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This book sets up an interesting series of observed relationships that culminate first in Arjie's sexual awakening and then his political (or apolitical) awakening around the time of the civil war in Sri Lanka. The stories of the forbidden love and the politically-troubled relationships he observes as a child bear closely on the choices he makes in his relationship with Shehan. He sees his family constantly pushing against the social expectations of a Tamil family and is brought into danger by their actions, but he makes choices based on similar principles – that love and friendship are more important than politics, that people are not the ethnicity they belong to, that life should not be lived by the arbitrary rules of society.
Similar to Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress, the story is also about the development of an artist, culminating the writing experiment/achievement of the epilogue. The stories within the novel – of bride-bride, Radha Aunty, Darryl Uncle, and Jegan – seem to serve as practice or setup for the ‘reality' of the epilogue – the real-life crisis that forces the family to leave Sri Lanka as refugees, made more immediate and critical through the diary form.
(I guess this is just going to be a three-star kind of class? Maybe I should try harder.)
I selected this book from the used book shelf at work. I noticed it was about Sri Lanka, and I am interested in, and have been reading lately, books about different countries.
The story is about a young man, Arjie, who is just entering the tender years of puberty. During this time, there is much turmoil in his country. Arjie is bullied by a newcomer, finds out those who are true friends, and learns many, very difficult lessons as he finds out what and who he is really all about. Great story.
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